Replace Judgment with Compassion

I know I shouldn’t care, but sometimes I wonder if when I do my honest posts about not being in the best emotional state, if there are some FB “friends” (lurkers) that eyeroll and think, “Here she goes with her ‘I need attention’ posts. ๐Ÿ™„ I wish she’d just get her sh*t together and getContinue reading “Replace Judgment with Compassion”

Desperation Is the Gateway to BS

I was stretching before bed and started thinking about what I would tell my former self, if I had the opportunity. What warnings I would’ve given her to protect her from hurt, from being used, and from the embarrassment that came with pouring my all into people who were not good for me.

Happy New Year of Unconditional Self-Love

I’ve seen a lot of posts about if all you’ve managed to do this year is get through it, you’ve done well. And honestly I agree. This year was really tough on a lot of us. It was very defining for a lot of us. A lot of relationships ended this year over decisions madeContinue reading “Happy New Year of Unconditional Self-Love”

Living an Ai Life: On ADHD Masking

I was just texting with a friend and as I switched my heart emoji from ๐Ÿ’™ to ๐Ÿงก I realized something…. My whole life I’ve been doing what ChatGPT does. (Stay with me I’m going somewhere.) To avoid getting in trouble (in an environment with a parent with unpredictable anger), I learned to study microContinue reading “Living an Ai Life: On ADHD Masking”