We’re Being Programmed

Watch programming FROM other cultures, not just ABOUT other cultures. If all you know about people that are different from you is what the news, Hallmark, movies and TV programs show you, you’re probably walking around with all kinds of stupid beliefs. You don’t know Black people because you watch Maury, Baddies, or the newsContinue reading “We’re Being Programmed”

Presence Over Paychecks: What Women Really Want

What often gets lost in the shuffle are the intentions that sparked that go-getter perspective. It’s not that provision doesn’t matter. It’s that provision without presence erodes relationships.
If you’re a man who’s doing all he can to provide and you seem to get nothing but complaints about you not being home, this is for you. I’m on your side.
This is not a lecture… at all. I’m just sharing a story and I hope it helps make things a little clearer.

Where Are We?

Our ability to access parts of ourselves has much to do with proximity. In certain environments we thrive. In the company of certain people we’re brave. Around certain others we feel powerless. Our ability to tap into our greatness, and tendency to shift into weakness, has much to do with proximity. I just woke fromContinue reading “Where Are We?”