Presence Over Paychecks: What Women Really Want

What often gets lost in the shuffle are the intentions that sparked that go-getter perspective. It’s not that provision doesn’t matter. It’s that provision without presence erodes relationships.
If you’re a man who’s doing all he can to provide and you seem to get nothing but complaints about you not being home, this is for you. I’m on your side.
This is not a lecture… at all. I’m just sharing a story and I hope it helps make things a little clearer.

That’s None of Your Business

Sometimes protecting your peace looks like rudeness to other people. The same people who will rudely inquire about your personal business, will call you rude for not responding. And in the past, I’d answer, because nothing mattered more than being “nice.” I had to protect my image.

However, now, I protect my peace….

I Can’t Do This

“Just because a person is putting out positive content doesn’t mean they don’t have low moments.” —
Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Life Is Lifing & I’m Chillin’

Today was a ridiculously uphill, #distewmuch type of day. AND for one of the first times, I didn’t let the inconveniences send me spiraling or push me into making desperate decisions to salvage my vision of the perfect day. Today, life was lifing AND I got to see how much I’ve grown.