Tell a Better Story

Whether we realize it or not, all day long we are telling ourselves stories. In our thoughts, we are hearing ourselves predicting outcomes. We are thinking about whether we’ll win or lose, how things play out for us and others. We’re affirming beliefs. When life happens—whether good or bad—depending on what we are used to,Continue reading “Tell a Better Story”

ADHD: On Unconditional Self-Love

Sometimes the challenges of being neurodivergent can make beautiful intentions become frustrating moments. I have learned this year to be kind to myself, to have patience with myself, and to just accept the reality that I am living with a processing disorder. This year has been about self-acceptance on another level. It’s less of meContinue reading “ADHD: On Unconditional Self-Love”

Past Present Future

Today, I woke up and decided I didn’t want to entertain anxious thoughts. I also didn’t want to feel bad by entertaining past thoughts. I just wanted to stay happy.

Releasing Shame: You Are Where You Are

People with good intentions often unintentionally shame us for where we are, because they see our potential and assume their advice can help us bypass the process. Life doesn’t work that way. We all have our own path. We all have our individual experiences. Don’t let anyone shame you into feeling you are at theContinue reading “Releasing Shame: You Are Where You Are”