Switch the Lens

Day 24 “Switch the Lens” #LIVINGMYTRUTH Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Meme image of a bridge and water, half as viewed through the lens of sunglasses. Text states: “What if instead of looking at ourselves through the lens of haters 
and critics, we choose to view ourselves through eyes of love and support?”
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
mdillondesigns.com/blog
Listen to today’s podcast below, or use the links at the end.
Press play to listen to today’s podcast. FYI I cuss so wait ’til the kids and elders aren’t around. Blessings!

Many of us view ourselves through the criticism and expectations that others have of us, that aren’t always positive. Many of us are insecure because we constantly view ourselves through the lens of those who didn’t see the good in us. However, many of us do have one person in our lives who did see the good, or we can imagine what we wish people saw in us (because we see it in us). We can choose to shift our view.

“What if instead of looking at ourselves through the lens of haters
and critics, we choose to view ourselves through eyes of love and support?” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Check out today’s podcast!
🎙 WordPress: mdillondesigns.com/blog
🎙 SoundCloud: soundcloud.com/marlenedillon
🎙 Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Share-Lets-Live/B0D13JBSJ4
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🎙 Buymeacoffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/marlenedillon/

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


On my Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)

Thank you so much for being here! Thank you for reading and listening. And double thank you for liking, commenting, and sharing. It matters so much. 🥰

*** Learn more about me, Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist! ***

You’re Growing & Becoming

Society, family, television, movies, etc. teach us to hate ourselves. They teach us that we are not enough, that we are failing, that the stage we’re in is wrong and should be other than it is.

“In order to truly love ourselves, 
we have to change the way we view ourselves.”
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
mdillondesigns.com/blog
Press play to hear today’s empowering podcast. Get the tissues.
Press play to listen to today’s podcast. FYI I cuss so wait ’til the kids and elders aren’t around. Blessings!

The truth of the matter is that we grow individually. We’re on our own timelines. We are not in a race. It’s more like an expressway. Some of may choose the same lanes to get where we’re going…. but there are infinite off roads and exits, and none of them are wrong. We can always relocate if we feel it’s not right for us….

But that’s not how we’re taught. We’re taught that we’re in a race, we’re in competition, opportunities to be who we are designed to be are limited….

But what if that’s not true? What if that is a construct to get us to do, be, expect, avoid, worship, support, pay for, etc…? What if the way we are exactly where we’re supposed to be right now…. regardless of the discomfort? What if we are both on a journey AND okay where we are?

Like when you’re on a road trip, as you pass through places on your drive, you’re not wrong for being there. It’s just part of the journey. What if when we arrive doesn’t matter? What if the timeline is also a construct? What if the pressure what put on ourselves to do, to achieve, to arrive at certain times is all… unnecessary? Just thoughts worth considering….

Anyway, today’s podcast is a different one—a powerful one—and possibly a life-changing one.

So many of us loathe ourselves for not being other than we are… for not being in a different state/situation than we are. Today, I asked for a higher perspective of myself and this is what I received…. Please check out today’s podcast if you’re curious and this message resonated with you.

Blessings,

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Listen to today’s empowering podcast episode! (above or below)
Day 23 “You’re Growing & Becoming” #LIVINGMYTRUTH Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
🎙 WordPress: mdillondesigns.com/blog
🎙 SoundCloud: soundcloud.com/marlenedillon
🎙 Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Share-Lets-Live/B0D13JBSJ4
🎙 AmazonMusic: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/15f8ab40-b888-4068-bd05-15239f7eb5ae/share-let’s-live
🎙 Buymeacoffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/marlenedillon/

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


On my Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)

Thank you so much for being here! Thank you for reading and listening. And double thank you for liking, commenting, and sharing. It matters so much. 🥰

*** Learn more about me, Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist! ***

The Roots of People Pleasing: You Can’t Keep Them Happy

Did I really record two podcast episodes in one day? Yes, I did. I had to share this message with you.

Meme Image: Mother comforting her son. Text states: “Keeping everyone happy is an exhausting, thankless, and impossible job. We can’t control what people focus on, no matter how hard we try. Their happiness is completely outside our control. It feels impossible to keep them happy, because it is.”
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist Share & Let's Live! podcast logo watermark 
mdillondesigns.com/blog
Check it out. Press play or use the links at the end.
Press play to listen to today’s podcast. FYI I cuss so wait ’til the kids and elders aren’t around. Blessings!

If you are a people pleaser, a recovering people pleaser, or connected to a people pleaser, check out this short and powerful message.

It’s an epiphany that came to me, today. It’s a gamechanger that I believe will impact how I show up in relationships for the rest of my life. Check it out.

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Check out today’s BONUS podcast episode!
Day 22 “You Can’t Keep Them Happy” #LIVINGMYTRUTH Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
🎙 WordPress: mdillondesigns.com/blog
🎙 SoundCloud: soundcloud.com/marlenedillon
🎙 Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Share-Lets-Live/B0D13JBSJ4
🎙 AmazonMusic: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/15f8ab40-b888-4068-bd05-15239f7eb5ae/share-let’s-live
🎙 Buymeacoffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/marlenedillon/

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


On my Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)

Thank you so much for being here! Thank you for reading and listening. And double thank you for liking, commenting, and sharing. It matters so much. 🥰

*** Learn more about me, Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist! ***

Blessings Come with Alignment

I’m learning that opportunities for blessings are always around me, but I typically miss them because I’m not in alignment. Being down, discouraged, frustrated, and irritated interferes with our ability to hear guidance.

Meme Image of blueberries Text states: “It’s hard to 
experience clarity when we’re out of alignment. When we’re feeling frustrated, worried, and uncertain, the best thing we can do is pause to get centered. 
When we’re calm, things get clear.”
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist 
mdillondesigns.com/blog
Check out today’s podcast by pressing play, or use the links at the end.
Press play to listen to today’s podcast. FYI I cuss so wait ’til the kids and elders aren’t around. Blessings!

Today, I talk about how I got blessed again! Yesterday, was bananas. Can you guess what today’s blessing was?

Listen to today’s podcast! (above or below)
Day 21 “The Blessing of Alignment” #LIVINGMYTRUTH Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
🎙 WordPress: mdillondesigns.com/blog
🎙 SoundCloud: soundcloud.com/marlenedillon
🎙 Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Share-Lets-Live/B0D13JBSJ4
🎙 AmazonMusic: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/15f8ab40-b888-4068-bd05-15239f7eb5ae/share-let’s-live
🎙 Buymeacoffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/marlenedillon/

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


On my Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)

Thank you so much for being here! Thank you for reading and listening. And double thank you for liking, commenting, and sharing. It matters so much. 🥰

*** Learn more about me, Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist! ***