Be Kind When You Slip Up

We can be so hard on ourselves.

“When you notice that you’re slipping back into old habits, be kind to yourself. The fact that even you noticed shows growth. Do what you need to get   centered.”
M D I L L O N D E S I G N S . C O M / B L O G
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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When we’re on this journey toward becoming more of our truest selves, we will have slip ups. It’s just part of it.

We need to be kinder to ourselves and recognize that many of our patterns of thinking and ways of being have been solidified over time. We’ve been thinking certain ways, responding certain ways, and expecting life to show up for us in certain ways for not just days, or months… sometimes for DECADES.

Why do we think a habit that took years to make, will be gone in days? It’s not realistic. We could do well for a week, or a month, but if life starts lifin’ (or we get hangry), it’s really easy to shift back to our old default setting. It’s familiar.

We need to realize that the fact that we even noticed that we are doing that thing again shows we’ve grown. There was a time when we didn’t notice. There was a time when it was our default setting. There was a time when it was so natural that we would just go on being and doing as normal.

The fact that we noticed is something we should celebrate. We’re growing. We’re shifting. We’re becoming aware. And that means we’re making progress. So let’s be kind to ourselves.

Let’s notice what’s going on that led to us slipping into that old pattern. Were you hungry? Were you around a certain person from your past? Were you feeling physically uncomfortable? Something as simple as the tag in your shirt rubbing against the back of your neck, or being too hot/cold, sleepy, or hungry could cause you to slip into that old default setting. Check in with yourself. And be kind to yourself.

Anywho…. check out today’s episode. I think it’ll be helpful, if this resonated with you.

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


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Day 3 “Be Kind When You Slip Up” #IAMtheONE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Blessings!

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When They’ve Changed & You’re Still Healing

A painful thing that I don’t hear people talk about is how hard it can be when we’re still healing from the impact of someone’s hurtful words and behavior and they suddenly put the past behind them and become a “good” person.

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Let's Live!
“When life seems unfair, it can be challenging to focus on the good. Sometimes the most loving 
thing we can do is acknowledge it & pour love into ourselves.
Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
M D I L L O N D E S I G N S . C O M / B L O G
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Even though their transformation is a great thing, and possibly something we’ve longed for. We, the ones who were harmed, are still in therapy, meeting with support groups, fighting off addictions, dealing with self-loathing, attracting unhealthy relationships and so on…. possibly decades later. And they get to just decide one day, “Hmmm… I think it’s time for me to be a better person,” and poof, their work is done.

Today, on the podcast, I talked about navigating the unfairness of this. I let it be okay that we feel as we feel. And I offered some alternate perspectives to consider.

If you can relate to this, I hope it brings you comfort. If you are on the other side of this, I hope it will help you to empathize with those you’ve hurt. And I commend you for healing.

Blessings,

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


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Day 2 “When They’ve Changed & You’re Still Healing” #IAMtheONE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


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Good, Evil & Expectations

Meme: Castle in the background Text states: “We’ve been conditioned to believe things that aren’t true and taught to ignore the truths that matter the most.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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“We’ve been conditioned to believe things that aren’t true and taught to ignore the truths that matter the most.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

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Day 1 “Good, Evil & Expectations” #IAMtheONE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


New month. New message. If you really want to know what this new month is about, you’ve gotta check out my really raw episode, “I Am the ONE.”


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Is the Past in the Way

“Sometimes we struggle to move forward because  pain in our past is impeding progress in the present.”
Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
M D I L L O N D E S I G N S . C O M / B L O G
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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“Sometimes we struggle to move forward because pain in our past is impeding progress in the present.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Enjoy today’s podcast! It’s a vulnerable one with some great insights and tips. Gotta listen ’til the end. Blessings!

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Day 31 “Is the Past in the Way” #IMAYBE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


On my Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily podcast (and are able), please send me a $5 matcha or purchase a membership to support. (If you’re unable, please know I understand.) Thank you so much for being here!

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