People with good intentions often unintentionally shame us for where we are, because they see our potential and assume their advice can help us bypass the process. Life doesn’t work that way.
We all have our own path. We all have our individual experiences. Don’t let anyone shame you into feeling you are at the wrong place at this time, because you still have to go through all the stages of your journey. Their path may be similar, but it’s not the same.
Some steps can’t be skipped. These steps are necessary parts of your process.
As I was reflecting on some recent incidents and epiphanies, I realized that other people’s frustrations don’t have to become my shame. I am where I am on my journey. I can’t get there any faster than I am meant to. There are experiences, lessons, epiphanies, etc. that will natural transition me to my next levels. And I no longer allowing people’s expectations of where I should be in life (given my gifts, skills, and achievements) to cause me to feel bad about myself. I am where I am and I’m not getting to next level until it’s my time to be at that level.
And this not about giving up or not challenging myself to grow. It’s just some stuff you’ve got to go through on your own to gain the perspective necessary to get to the next step. And no one can give you a cheat sheet on that just because they’ve been through something similar. Some advice will work for you and some won’t “land” (you won’t be able to process it) because, as Abraham-Hicks often says, “words don’t teach.” Some understandings ONLY come through experience.
So people can get stop getting frustrated as they attempt to help you skip steps by pouring on unsolicited advice. You get where you are meant to be in your time, not theirs. This is what I talk about on today’s episode. It’s a new concept for me, that has been really healing. I explain it better on the podcast so please press play and check it out. Remember that I cuss, so choose your environment wisely.
Thank you for being here. I hope this helpful for you.
Blessings!
Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
MDillon Designs & Publishing 