When They’ve Changed & You’re Still Healing

A painful thing that I don’t hear people talk about is how hard it can be when we’re still healing from the impact of someone’s hurtful words and behavior and they suddenly put the past behind them and become a “good” person.

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Let's Live!
“When life seems unfair, it can be challenging to focus on the good. Sometimes the most loving 
thing we can do is acknowledge it & pour love into ourselves.
Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Even though their transformation is a great thing, and possibly something we’ve longed for. We, the ones who were harmed, are still in therapy, meeting with support groups, fighting off addictions, dealing with self-loathing, attracting unhealthy relationships and so on…. possibly decades later. And they get to just decide one day, “Hmmm… I think it’s time for me to be a better person,” and poof, their work is done.

Today, on the podcast, I talked about navigating the unfairness of this. I let it be okay that we feel as we feel. And I offered some alternate perspectives to consider.

If you can relate to this, I hope it brings you comfort. If you are on the other side of this, I hope it will help you to empathize with those you’ve hurt. And I commend you for healing.

Blessings,

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


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Day 2 “When They’ve Changed & You’re Still Healing” #IAMtheONE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Good, Evil & Expectations

Meme: Castle in the background Text states: “We’ve been conditioned to believe things that aren’t true and taught to ignore the truths that matter the most.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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“We’ve been conditioned to believe things that aren’t true and taught to ignore the truths that matter the most.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

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Blessings!

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New month. New message. If you really want to know what this new month is about, you’ve gotta check out my really raw episode, “I Am the ONE.”


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Is the Past in the Way

“Sometimes we struggle to move forward because  pain in our past is impeding progress in the present.”
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M D I L L O N D E S I G N S . C O M / B L O G
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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“Sometimes we struggle to move forward because pain in our past is impeding progress in the present.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

Enjoy today’s podcast! It’s a vulnerable one with some great insights and tips. Gotta listen ’til the end. Blessings!

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Day 31 “Is the Past in the Way” #IMAYBE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


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I Am the ONE!

When you’ve spent most of your existence trying to fit in… and failing at it… Then you have a moment of awakening in therapy and in conversations with a friend and in your quiet time with yourself and Source… ALL IN THE SAME WEEK….

“That awesome moment when you wake up to yourself, release who they said you were, step fully into your greatness, and declare,
  ‘I Am the One.’”
Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
M D I L L O N D E S I G N S . C O M / B L O G
—  Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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I just went from wanting to be one of y’all to recognizing I AM THE ONE. I don’t need to fit. I don’t need approval. I don’t need to make myself small. I don’t need to hide. I don’t need to act less qualified. I don’t need to worry about your opinion. I don’t need to feel you know more than my inner knowing….

I’ve got a purpose. I’ve got things to share. I’ve got work to do. And I’m acknowledging that I’m the one to do it.

Next month’s podcast series is called….. (drumroll please)… #IAMTHE1 (I Am the One!). I’m super excited about. Today’s podcast is all about it and the journey to here.

Special thank you to my friend Flower for the words she spoke into me this week that helped me bridge a gap and find my place. Choosing who you associate with matters.

Anyway, check out today’s podcast. It’s empowering and I think you may get something for yourself from my story of my journey. Love ya! Thank you for being here.

Check out today’s podcast!

Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

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Day 30 “I Am the ONE” #IMAYBE Share & Let’s Live! #Podcast Series w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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Blessings!

Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist


On my Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily podcast (and are able), please send me a $5 matcha or purchase a membership to support. (If you’re unable, please know I understand.) Thank you so much for being here!

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