As I study different teachings to make sense of life, I am coming to realize that my life is as at is largely because that’s how I envision it. Yeah, I have dreams and goals (that look nothing like my current experience of life), but when I look into the future, I find it challengingContinue reading “What Do You See For Yourself?”
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The Peace of Imperfection
As someone who could never get it right enough to garner praise in childhood, it’s no wonder that I became a bit of a perfectionist. I did all I could, including lived a double life, so that I could gain all that good girl praise. Welp. I had a good run. It’s way too exhaustingContinue reading “The Peace of Imperfection”
Drifting Much? Tips on Shifting Your Focus
Today, I found myself drifting into thoughts that weren’t serving me. Instead of getting upset with myself, I simply said to myself, “Drifting much?” and fell out laughing. Sometimes we’re too hard on ourselves as we address habits on our personal growth journeys. We’re not always going to get it right. The work is challengingContinue reading “Drifting Much? Tips on Shifting Your Focus”
Proving Your Worth
I saw a post the other day about how people who’ve experienced a particular form of trauma tend to do things in relationships to show they are valuable and needed. I had never heard of such a thing, but it caught my attention. It made me think about my own behavior and how I showContinue reading “Proving Your Worth”