Yeah… I could’ve chosen to beat around the bush with the title, but naaaah. This podcast episode is about situationships. I want more women (in particular) to stop getting their feelings hurt in these pseudo relationships. So I am putting my own stuff out there so you can see the pattern, and stop hurting your own feelings.
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If it’s calling you, check it out (above or below). It might help you or someone you know. That’s my hope. 😘
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A dear friend shared a post with me today that confirmed my need to remember how to feel. I share about this on today’s podcast.
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“Some of us trained ourselves to feel nothing so we could get through painful events in life. However, when we “go numb,” by default, we also miss out on the good feeling emotions.” — Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
On my blog and Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily blog/podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)
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I called this episode “The Death of People Pleasing” because that’s how it feels for me. As someone who started people pleasing VERY early in life, it is a beautiful thing to say how that tendency is dissipating.
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One of the greatest lessons came to me painfully when I realized that the same people I would all but give my last breath to would never do that for me. And that could do everything right and they’d still find something to be upset about.
There’s something about realizing that you’re on a one way street in a relationship that makes you rethink your level of commitment. I’m grateful for the day I realized that trying to keep people happy is like trying to blow out one of those trick birthday candles—you know the ones that when you think you blew it out, it just lights again? That’s what it’s like.
We can’t keep people happy. We can do everything we know to do to keep a smile on their face, BUT ultimately their happiness has NOTHING to do with what WE’RE doing, and everything to do with what they are thinking and feeling. And guess what. We can’t control what they’re thinking and feeling.
I got tired of running myself down…. I got tired of running myself down for people who would never run themselves down to support me. I got tired of running myself down to make people happy, only for them to find something new to be upset about a few minutes later, or worse for them to be ungrateful for the backbreaking effort I put in.
As we evolve and grow on this self-love journey, it’s important that we notice where we are investing our energy. If it’s pointless, why keep doing it? If you’re people pleasing, what is the deeper reason for (what do you gain from) doing it?
Tough truth…. chances are that your people pleasing tendency is rooted in fear, rather than love. You may tell yourself you do it FROM love, but more than likely you do it FOR love…. And that “Yay, I made them happy,” reward system feels like love. And when their happiness wears off…. we’ve gotta go make them happy again to get that “fix” of “love” again.
Real love isn’t temporary and conditional like that. But chances are we learned very early in life that love feels like “they’re happy with me.” And that starts the cycle.
I could say more, but I leave you with that. Check out the podcast episode. It’s a good one.
On my blog and Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily blog/podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)
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“Some of us are so used to prioritizing everyone else’s needs, we’re burned out and exhausted. It’s time we put ourselves first.”— Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
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And that’s what today’s episode is about. Today, that’s exactly what I did.
On my blog and Share & Let’s Live! podcast, I share tips and tools that are transforming my life and mindset every single day. If you appreciate this FREE daily blog/podcast (and are able), please consider sending a tip via Buymeacoffee. It’s a great way to support without breaking the bank. (No pressure, of course. If you’re unable, please know I understand.)
*** Note: Due to recent technical challenges (I need a new computer), I may not post a podcast every day. I will still try to post a blog and podcast as close to daily as possible. Scroll down my Blog Page or SoundCloud to listen to hundreds of previous podcast episodes. ***
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