I remember when I was miserably single. Valentine’s Day was torture.
I’ve truly grown. I couldn’t be more single. And I’m watching couples’ posts in my news feed, and just celebrating them and seeing how cute they look together, and how happy they are… especially the ones who clearly celebrate each other year ’round.
It’s funny when you’ve been on the other side, that you don’t have to feel left out. I’ve experienced both sides… and one thing I learned is that the grass is often greener on the lawn you can’t see up close. So many singles want to be married, and so many married people wouldn’t do it again if they had a chance to choose again (and of course there are those who are happily married Just kidding I know a few who got it right.)
Point is, every state has it’s benefits, and challenges. And every once in a while, you get blessed to share your life with someone who lets you see how green your own grass is.
I’m blessed to have experienced all three, and I know that when I’m ready, I’ll revisit the upgraded version of the last. Who knows, maybe sooner than I think.
Blessings to you! Happy Valentine’s… Galentine’s…. Happy….. Day to Intentionally Celebrate Love! Make sure you love yourself a little extra today.